The first step of personal development is the understanding of “Who am I” or “how our life is designed”? This is something like “if you want to reveal the secret you will have to go into that.
As quoted by Mr. James.J.Mapes in his book Quantum Leap Thinking, we always have options in our life and the choices that we make out of these option finally shapes our life. But the challenge become apparent when we have to make choices, because choices we make are result of the way we look at the life. Or in other words we see life through a filter of belief system. The composition of that filter determines the quality of our choices. And the clarity of the filter depends on many things- experience, education and environment.
Theoretical concept of this conditioning of life has been proposed by many others like Shiv Khera who says….in one of his book “You Can Win” that our life is conditioned (I think designed) by the situation or the persons (surrounding us) we encounter throughout our life. It may lead to a positive attitude or negative attitude (toward life or other things).He defines these surroundings as environment- family, society, friends, works etc – experience – with person and situation and education- formal or informal.
Carrying this philosophy forward I just want to say, everything in this world has its phases of development, being it a business, life or career it has to pass through formative, growth, maturity and finally end phases. The quality or the design of each phase is somewhat determined by the act of preceding phase (except formative). As discussed the choices taken in growth phase of life is the function of the filter system built during formative phase that finally decide the design of latter stage of growth phase. Same applies in career as well, initial quality of your experience at work station further shape the future of your career to an extent (not completely).
The point I want to make here is, no matter how our life or career is designed, we can alter it…..yes we can…..”Every moment is the seed for new life”. At any point of time if we think we can change our self we should take charge of our life and move ahead. This is what everybody says starting from Vivekananda to new generation motivational speaker Robin Sharma. But my thinking here is, so what if our conditioning or designing was done by default can we take charge to design the life of others as a parent to design the life of our next generation, as a boss to design the career of our subordinate? Can we create a positive environment around us, can we create a good experience for others or can we pass on the right education to others? If we can do this we can change the world.